Treat & be Gentle to Your Self

It has been the characteristic of the world since antiquity, that in times when any is afflicted with any sort of misery or adversity, then mostly people appear in their true colors. The one who is afflicted will experience denunciation, abuse and refusals by others, people try their best to down size, insult, and slight you in every possible manner. But when the blue days disappear after whatever period then, the same people will forget your appalling times. They will once again get up to welcome you, and elevate you in their eyes and heart. But when a person degrades, offend, and disrespect his own self, by indulging in immoral and dishonorable acts, he then loses his self respect and integrity within his own eyes, and once this disastrous event happens, then there are no chances of revival.


There is no worse situation or humiliation for any to be involved and caught for committing felony, no matter how small or great it might be. Keep reminding yourself that circumstances change, and what seems unbearable now might be the making of you. Try to be gentle to your own self, and instead of cursing bless the hard times for whatever it has to teach you, and learn graciously. Look within your own self and you will find a brave soul. At times we underestimate our own self and do not realize what great powers we posses. Do not forget that the soul is always brave, discover the strength of your innermost, and you will be able to face life’s trials, and your courage, determination and will power will take you a long way.


However, it won’t be possible to achieve your desired goals all at once, but each step that you take will be a step towards its manifestation. With your intellectual powers you can bring an amazing change in your physical environment as well. Self conceit is an atrocious mind set, when all one can think is to satiate their personal desires, and remain focus on self contentment’s then you will find yourself alone at some stage of your life yet, by refusing to take nothing you might develop a strong feeling of deprivation, therefore, look for a way that is harmonies that will cater your needs and that of the other person also. But in case compromise is not possible, then be cordial consciously, and turn your vision towards your own way. Never annoy or disrespect your own self on account of other people’s misconducts and ill behavior, as you cannot part with your own self. Be the first one to exceed in goodness it’s the greatest    shield and protection for one’s soul.

“There are those who give with Joy, and that Joy is their Reward “

( Khaleel Gibran )



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